Getting Started

Learn how to create your account, set up your first draft, and start writing your wedding vows with guided prompts.

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Getting Started with vows.you

Start Writing - No Sign-Up Required

You can jump straight into the workspace and start writing without creating an account or entering your email. Just open the app and go.

If you want to save your progress, you can create a free account at any time.

Creating Your First Draft

  1. Go to the Workspace.
  2. Choose a tone - heartfelt, funny, poetic, playful, traditional, or modern.
  3. Pick an outline to give your vows structure (or go freeform).
  4. Follow the guided prompts to pull out your stories, memories, and promises.
  5. Your vows will take shape as you write - no blank page required.

Choosing a Tone

Not sure what tone fits? Here’s a quick guide:

  • Heartfelt: Sincere, emotional, classic wedding vow energy.
  • Light & Funny: Opens with humor, lands on sincerity.
  • Poetic: Lyrical and expressive - for the writers and romantics.
  • Modern Minimal: Distilled and direct - every word earns its place.

You can change your tone at any time without losing your progress.

Saving Your Work

  • Free accounts can save 1 draft.
  • Full Access unlocks unlimited drafts so you can explore different versions.

Your work is saved automatically as you type.

Frequently asked questions

Common questions about this topic

  • Do I need an account to start writing?

    No. You can start writing immediately - no email or sign-up required. Create an account later if you want to save your drafts.

  • How do I start my first draft?

    Head to the workspace, pick a tone and outline, and follow the guided prompts. Your vows will take shape as you answer.

  • Can I change my tone or outline after I start?

    Yes. You can switch your tone or outline at any time without losing what you've already written.

  • How long does it take to write vows?

    Most people finish a solid first draft in 20-30 minutes. You can always come back and refine.